Absolutely. In fact, you don’t need to wait until something is wrong to invest in your relationship. Every relationship moves through seasons, and what you need in one season may look completely different in the next. This retreat is about stepping out of everyday life long enough to check in, reconnect, have conversations you may not normally make time for, and intentionally build what comes next. Good relationships deserve attention too.

I get it.

But this probably isn't what they're imagining. You're not signing up for hours of lectures about feelings or being told everything you're doing wrong. This is practical, conversational and designed to be an experience you do together.

You'll talk, laugh, think, dream, solve some problems and probably learn a few things about each other along the way. You can do it over coffee, on a walk, at a restaurant, on vacation or curled up on the couch. Make it yours.

Make it about US, not YOU. Instead of “I think we need to work on our relationship,” try something more like: “I found this relationship retreat that actually looks really cool. I love what we have, and I think it would be fun to take some intentional time for us and do it together.” This isn't about presenting your partner with a list of things they need to fix. It's about investing in the life you're building together.

Or try one of these:

“I found something I think could actually be really cool for us to do together. And before you panic, no—I don't think our relationship is broken. I've just been thinking about how easy it is to get busy and slowly stop making time for each other. I really value what we have, and I don't want us to wait until something is wrong to invest in it."

"It's not therapy or some judgey relationship course. It's more like a guide that gives us things to talk about and helps us look at ourselves, our relationship and the life we're building together. I thought we could make a weekend—or a few dates—out of it. I think it could actually be fun.”

"I think we've been through a lot and life has felt upside down a lot lately. I heard about this retreat and I think it would be awesome to take some time to just really get on the same page and work together. We struggle to put two sentences together and most times when we finally get a minute to talk we're both drained and don't even know where to start. I like the idea of working on our systems together."

"If I'm being honest with you, I feel like I've just been struggling a bit with life lately. I feel exhausted and sometimes not myself. And I'm sure you feel this too. I was wondering if you would go through this process with me so we can really learn how to support each other. Sometimes I don't know how to communicate what I'm feeling or going through and I just feel like I need a place to start."

That's exactly why I created it. You can turn the RESET into a weekend getaway, add it to a vacation, create a staycation at home, or work through it over several weeks. Your Retreat Planning Guide includes different suggested schedules so you can choose what works for your season of life. Don't wait for the mythical weekend when absolutely nothing is going on. You might be waiting forever.

Nope! A hotel, cabin, resort or vacation can be amazing—but they're absolutely not required. You can RESET right at home. The key is making the time feel different from an ordinary weekend: deal with the chores beforehand, arrange the kids or pets if you can, grab some good food, put the damn phones away and intentionally protect the time. You don't need a five-star resort. You need some space to focus on each other.

No. Get Your S#!T Together as a Couple is an educational relationship retreat, not therapy or counselling. I'm going to guide you through individual reflection, meaningful conversations, communication tools, teamwork, practical life systems, connection and intimacy—but I'm not diagnosing or treating relationship or mental-health concerns. If you're dealing with abuse, violence, active addiction, serious mental-health concerns or issues requiring specialized support, please work with an appropriately qualified professional.

They might. You're talking about real life, and real conversations aren't always perfectly comfortable. But you're not being sent into the deep end without any tools. The RESET intentionally walks you through the process, including learning how to communicate with more curiosity, honesty and respect. The goal isn't to prove who's right, keep score or arrive armed with everything your partner has ever done wrong. You're on the same team.

Sex and intimacy are part of the RESET, but they're only one part of a much bigger picture. You'll spend time on yourselves as individuals, communication, teamwork, everyday life systems, romance, connection and intimacy. The Turn Up the Heat section is designed to encourage curiosity, communication and playfulness—not pressure. You always decide what feels right for your relationship, and nobody owes anybody anything.

There are two workbooks, so technically...there may be a pencil involved. But this isn't meant to feel like sitting through a weekend seminar. Take the conversations into the car. Answer questions over coffee. Bring your workbook to the patio. Talk over dinner. Take a break and go hiking. Pour some wine. Have sex. Go have fun. The retreat is the experience. The course simply gives that experience some direction.

I know how easy it is to buy a course, get excited about changing something and then let life take over. That's why I created the $100 Completion Reward. I don't just want you to buy this retreat—I want you to actually do it. Complete the RESET according to the Completion Reward requirements, and I'll give you $100 back. Because buying another course won't change anything. Doing the work will.

Please do those things too! But there's a difference between getting away from your life for a weekend and intentionally looking at the life you're building together. A date night gives you time together. The RESET gives that time direction. You'll look at yourselves individually, strengthen your communication, talk about what's working and what isn't, build practical systems for everyday life, dream about where you're headed and reconnect romantically. The goal isn't just to have a great weekend. It's to bring something better home with you.

You're getting a complete at-home Relationship Retreat experience—not just a collection of videos. You'll receive the full Get Your S#!T Together as a Couple online course, two individual workbooks so you can each do your own reflection and exercises, guided conversations and activities, practical tools and resources, plus the retreat-planning and bonus materials included with your purchase. Everything is designed to help you move through the RESET together—from Self → Partnership → Life.